Not every relationship goes perfect.
Not every relationship is a fairy tale.
Not every relationship lasts longer.
Not every relationship remains the same.
But yes, every relationship has to end one day!
What is the right time for a relationship to be broken? It's when you realize that the person whom you fell in love with is not the same. You just realize that you loved him, the person 'he was' not the person 'he is' NOW. Sometimes I just ponder upon and get depressed that no relationship is perfect. Not even that of a mother and child or even that of a husband and wife. There are times when a child does not value his mother or the times when husband likes watching other chicks. Where are we heading towards? These are the days where relationships are less valued and emotions are played with. This was not what world was made for. The world was made to spread humanity!
Yes, the times have changed and people are more focused upon their career and routine. But, it doesn't mean that you would forget that there is someone who could be missing you and waiting for your text. One message could make someone's day....Just one!
One year back, you like a girl and you fell in love with her. You think about being with her, having your future with her and marrying her. One fine day you realize that she loves you back and far much much much more than you do. You feel lucky and think about happy future with her. You make a perfect couple and spend hours talking, laughing and being with one another but a single day changes everything. You go miles apart promising her that one day you'd come back and embrace her. You try keeping little promises but you get too happy enjoying the new fascinating life that you even forget to tell her, " I am there for you!" She waits. Longing just for a single phone call. There were times when you would text 1000's of messages and call 100 times a day but now even a single ping on her phone is out of the league? Her day started with your beautiful message saying, "Good morning! have a nice day" but now even a one rupee thing pinches you? Everything spoils. She feels like escaping out. She feels everything on verge. And then ultimately she realize that you are not the person whom she fell in love with.
Dear people in love or out of love, don't leave those little amazing things. Those things that are nothing to you could mean a lot to someone. If you truly love your partner, give them your time. And if you think it's irrelevant and your partner should compromise then it's better to burn the relationship. A clear rejection would be much better than this constant pain.
It is no use of being together when the things you loved are no more and the person who did them is not the same. "Understanding" is something that is needed. It's such an illogical thing to say," I am never busy for you" because you are the one who couldn't give a single second of happiness. You are the one who couldn't keep the fairy tale alive. It's you!
Not every relationship is a fairy tale.
Not every relationship lasts longer.
Not every relationship remains the same.
But yes, every relationship has to end one day!
What is the right time for a relationship to be broken? It's when you realize that the person whom you fell in love with is not the same. You just realize that you loved him, the person 'he was' not the person 'he is' NOW. Sometimes I just ponder upon and get depressed that no relationship is perfect. Not even that of a mother and child or even that of a husband and wife. There are times when a child does not value his mother or the times when husband likes watching other chicks. Where are we heading towards? These are the days where relationships are less valued and emotions are played with. This was not what world was made for. The world was made to spread humanity!
Yes, the times have changed and people are more focused upon their career and routine. But, it doesn't mean that you would forget that there is someone who could be missing you and waiting for your text. One message could make someone's day....Just one!
One year back, you like a girl and you fell in love with her. You think about being with her, having your future with her and marrying her. One fine day you realize that she loves you back and far much much much more than you do. You feel lucky and think about happy future with her. You make a perfect couple and spend hours talking, laughing and being with one another but a single day changes everything. You go miles apart promising her that one day you'd come back and embrace her. You try keeping little promises but you get too happy enjoying the new fascinating life that you even forget to tell her, " I am there for you!" She waits. Longing just for a single phone call. There were times when you would text 1000's of messages and call 100 times a day but now even a single ping on her phone is out of the league? Her day started with your beautiful message saying, "Good morning! have a nice day" but now even a one rupee thing pinches you? Everything spoils. She feels like escaping out. She feels everything on verge. And then ultimately she realize that you are not the person whom she fell in love with.
Dear people in love or out of love, don't leave those little amazing things. Those things that are nothing to you could mean a lot to someone. If you truly love your partner, give them your time. And if you think it's irrelevant and your partner should compromise then it's better to burn the relationship. A clear rejection would be much better than this constant pain.
It is no use of being together when the things you loved are no more and the person who did them is not the same. "Understanding" is something that is needed. It's such an illogical thing to say," I am never busy for you" because you are the one who couldn't give a single second of happiness. You are the one who couldn't keep the fairy tale alive. It's you!
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